Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again & expecting different results… The difference between getting some life coaching and not is being limited or empowered.
I have NO doubt in my mind, that life coaching has been the vehicle for the single biggest, most fundamental change in me and how I live my life.
The thing is, I picked up the ambulance at the bottom of the cliff to get coaching, rather than being proactive and seeking it out. The cost of this was that I spent a long period of time feeling deeply unfilled and unhappy, in which time I lost control of my basic emotions – got angry easily, felt down repeatedly and suffered anxious feelings regularly. I lost precious moments with my children in an unrelenting busyness and beat myself up constantly that my intention was completely the opposite; I wanted to be the best and most present mum I could possibly be. I was riddled with #momguilt for not achieving that.
At the heart of not having made that change sooner was a cluster of limiting beliefs and negative thoughts that were residing in my psyche and holding me back.
I am mum. Everybody else must come first. I will get onto me when the girls don’t need me anymore. I have to be everything they need me to be and be the best at it too.
And yet, if I had have been a 35 year career woman in a challenging job I would have had no qualms using the services of a life coach to manage those challenges. So why not #beingmum, one of the most challenging jobs there is?
Here are some signs that you could benefit from a life coach, so that you don’t get picked up by the ambulance at the bottom of the cliff! Because the fall isn’t pretty…
What might you get if you decide to engage a Life Coach?
For a start it’s almost guaranteed that you’ll see you’ve got way more in you than you realise and that you have dreams like any other person, even though you are a mum, and those dreams are not beyond you. And you’ll get full permission to live the life you want to design.
Across my own 12 week coaching journey I peeled back the onion layers of who I am and what I want. Coaching gave me a blank slate where all possibilities were valid options. My coaching space was one where nothing was holding me back from being or trying anything. It was liberating to cut the legs out from under the beliefs holding me back from true happiness and fulfilment. And with that I reclaimed my enthusiasm and energy to recreate my life.
Over 12 weeks I experienced at least 12 transformational results:
- I shifted quickly out of overwhelm
- I completely redesigned my schedule
- I decluttered my whole house
- I learned powerful prioritising
- I gained the ability to let go; of the stuff that didn’t serve me and of limiting beliefs, which gave me freedom
- I started purposefully working towards something outside of #beingmum
- I rediscovered living in the moment
- I got complete clarity over what matters to me; my values
- I became friends with my fears, so I could work on them rather than ignore them
- I understood myself for possibly the first time ever
- I designed a life for myself that fit with my values and my goals
- I started living on purpose instead of on autopilot.
The bulk of this happened across just 8 weeks. It just took creating space and giving my complete commitment to working on the areas of my life that were not serving me. The weight that was lifted following those 8 weeks was almost as transformational as the coaching itself! I was floating on air. I finally started to enjoy my children and reconnect with my husband and do the the things that made me happy, which made me better able to look after everyone else.
Thinking ‘I’ll have me some of that?!’
The good news is that I am a Life Coach working to empower open and inspired women with more balance, freedom, fulfilment and happiness in their lives.
If you are overwhelmed, stuck or simply shelving YOU right now let me help you find out whether life coaching can help.
If you feel lost in the demands of #beingmum or are just ready for some ‘pzazz’ in your life right now, let me help you find the space and time to find true alignment between what you want and what you have in your life.
My role as a life coach is to ensure that you start unearthing your true desires. To enable you to re-discover the aligned, healthy, happy and self-compassionate inner-you.
You can thrive for yourself, within the demands of your family life and within the time you have. You just have to give yourself the permission to work on yourself and commit to following through.
My mission is to help mums feeling overwhelmed, unsure and unfulfilled to find balance, focus and happiness. I don’t see it as a luxury to be this way, I see it as our responsibility as mums because if our cups aren’t full we can’t fill the cups of those around us to our best ability. Plus, our children model their behavior on how we treat ourselves, so if we can’t put ourselves first when we need to we can’t expect them to ever do so either.
To coach with me is simple.
1. Contact me to enquire about coaching
2. Book a 30 minute Discovery Session with me, either for coaching or my Design Your Life Experience
3. Decide if we’re an awesome fit and then get started!
I look forward to connecting with you and sharing a journey together.
Much love, Clare X X